People can have a variety of reasons for seeing Pro Dominants, and often there are several different intentions happening at once. In this blog post, I'll dive into a few of the more common reasons people visit Dominatrices. By reading, I hope you can identify with some of the themes listed, validate your own existing reasons, or give inspiration to figure out your own unique blend of intentions.

The stereotype dictates that a good sub does whatever his Mistress asks, right? She ties you a little too tight, you let your extremities go numb without a word. She tells you to take more hits, but even though you desperately need a break, you take more hits. She calls you a worthless, good for nothing, piece of scum that it unfit to lick her boots, and even though some of those words don't sit right with you, you continue on with the scene.

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Everyone has a first time with a Pro Dominant. If you've been seeing a Pro Dom(me) for years, can you remember your first session? You probably left important things out of the request form. You almost cancelled last minute. You were so nervous that you wondered if he/she could see your hands shaking. You were maybe a little too... eager to please?