Not resonating with the serious kink archetypes you see in media and beyond? Want the freedom to laugh, smile, and express joy in your scenes? Do you desire mischievousness, teasing, or games within your dynamic? Perhaps a more playful Domination style might be up your alley.

People can have a variety of reasons for seeing Pro Dominants, and often there are several different intentions happening at once. In this blog post, I'll dive into a few of the more common reasons people visit Dominatrices.

A Dom(me)'s number one priority should always be your physical safety, and mental/emotional well being. And if you want to be a good sub, you most valued qualities will be knowing yourself, clearly indicated boundaries, and good communication skills. Not simply doing whatever Mistress says.

Unsure what to do during your first session? Here are 10 approachable scene ideas to inspire you.

Picture a Dominatrix in your head, right now. The Dominatrix most people are familiar with, is the one we often see mimicked time and time again, in popular culture. She is a latex clad woman wearing six inch stilettos, with a whip in hand. She is white, and fit, with large breasts. And she is ready to kick your ass. Sound familiar?

Everyone has a first time with a Pro Dominant. If you've been seeing a Pro Dom(me) for years, can you remember your first session? You were so nervous that you wondered if he/she could see your hands shaking.