Frequently Asked Questions

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Booking

  • $450/hr.

    I offer a discounted rate of $400/hr for multi-Provider sessions.

  • I require a deposit of $100/hr upfront to book. I accept deposits via e-transfer (or PayPal for non-Canadian residents) to the email pimmer@hotmail.com.

  • Yes, my $450/hr rate discounts to $400/hr for multi-Provider sessions.

  • I am generally happy to session with most other Toronto Pros, but my main duo partners are Ms Chloe Mars and Goddess Freya Fae. I have a short list of recommendations for other Dominant duo partners, male duo partners, FS duo partners, and submissive duo partners upon request.

  • By filling out my booking form.

  • My minimum is one hour, but I always recommend 1.5 hours for a first session. Keep in mind that for a first session, negotiation can easily take 15-20 minutes of your time.

  • My minimum for couple's sessions is 1.5 hour, but the ideal session length is 2 hours. Consider that negotiation with two people can easily take up 20-30 minutes.

  • My maximum for a solo session is 4 hours, but I am happy to go up to a maximum of 8 hours in a multi Provider session.

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Sessions & Services

  • The Kneeling Room. The intersection is Parliament & Carlton. You will receive the address when the session is booked. I will only use other play spaces to join a multi-Provider scene elsewhere.

  • My services are listed here. If you need clarification on what I offer, you may inquire via email.

  • The number of activities is dependent on how long your session time is, and how time consuming the activities are. In general, you can experience about 1-3 activities in an hour.

  • No, I do not engage in any kind of virtual play. However, I can absolutely accommodate virtual consultations via Google Meet.

  • Not in the specific sense, but I am usually happy to accommodate a more general request like "leather" or "something shiny". The priority of my outfits will always be my own comfort, and what works best for the specified session activities.

  • My sessions are custom catered to my clients, and co-created with my clients. Filling out my form gives me all the information I need to get started. On the day, you will knock at the door and I will welcome you into The Kneeling Room. You will have a chance to use the washroom, get changed, and have a chat with me before any play begins. We will transition into the scene, in which we will play out your requested activities. 5+ minutes will be left at the end for decompression.

  • No. 5+ minutes of negotiation is necessary for my Professional practice, regardless if you are a new client or not.

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Etiquette

  • Knock exactly at your session time, and leave when your session time ends. Coming early or staying late will potentially impact the discretion of the yourself and the other people that use The Kneeling Room.

  • With each session booking, I am happy to exchange a couple emails regarding session activities. Please take note that we will also talk in-person during your session time, for 5+ minutes before any play begins. If you require more back-and-forth than that, I'd be happy to book a consultation with you. See services page for consultation info.

  • You should arrive in discreet regular clothes. From there, you are welcome to change into whatever you like for your session. Most people wear their undergarments, nothing, or a special session outfit they've brought. If you are interested in feminization, The Kneeling Room has a modest collection on-hand.

  • After you fill out my form and I get back to you with a session confirmation, all you have to do is look forward to your session day. On the day, you are expected to arrive with impeccable hygiene, and a willingness to explore.

  • You may not touch or physically engage with me unless I have specifically directed or invited you to do so. I do not provide intimate worship and I will remain fully clothed for your session. If you are unclear about something, it is preferable to ask rather than assume.

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Sites & Links

  • Smaller gestures to bring to your next session:

    • A London Fog or Chai Latte

    • Gluten free pastries

    • Fresh flowers

    • A cash tip

    Larger gifts to express your devotion:

    • Kink items to add to my collection

    • Vintage items, specifically medical, school, or religion related

    • Crucifixes to add to my feature wall

    • Northbound Leather giftcards

  • Returning clients and other Providers may email me at ladypim@protonmail.com. First time clients are required to fill out my form to book.

  • I do not accept DMs on any of my socials, but you are welcome to follow along and comment at:

    • Twitter- @theladypim1

    • Instagram- @theladypim

    • Tiktok- @theladypim

    • Bluesky- @theladypim

  • My one subscription site to show your ongoing support is my Patreon: www.patreon.com/thebedpostshow.

  • Ms Chloe Mars at Project Deimos.

  • Ashley Sherwood